Our Approach

At Relationship Matters our aim is simple, we want to empower you to create meaningful connections with the people in your life. 

At the core of our approach is the belief that successful relationships are based on mutual trust and respect, curiosity to seek to know and understand each other better and a commitment to working hard to improve.

We apply these principles in our working relationships with clients and professional partners across Singapore and in doing so provide diverse and high quality counselling, mediation, workshops and team building services. 

Jessica Lamb

Jessica is the founder of Relationship Matters, a qualified psychotherapist and mediator and specializes in enabling couples, families and teams to bridge the relationship gap when communication has broken down.

Jessica holds an MSc in Therapeutic Counselling from the University of Greenwich, London, England, and is an Associate Mediator with the Singapore Mediation Centre. She is an Emergenetics Associate and has run workshops with couples and corporate teams, as well as individual and couple debriefings.

Jessica practices integrative therapy, drawing on her training in humanistic, psychodynamic and cognitive behavioural approaches, as well as Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). She believes that by creating a safe, open and trusting space it is possible to explore the impact of deeply held beliefs, understand unconscious and potentially destructive drives and connect with ourselves and other people in a more fulfilling way.  She uses her training as a therapist to gain insight and enhance the relationships she builds when offering mediation and couple and team building workshops.  

Jessica has furthered her professional training by completing Gottman Method Couples Therapy Parts 1 & 2, and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy and practices Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR), having trained with the EMDR Institute, USA. She is a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP), a member of the  EMDR Institute and Singapore Mediation Centre (SMC).

Jessica is British and moved to Singapore in 2009 and has worked extensively with couples and adult individuals during her career. She has also worked with adolescents in a school setting offering a nurturing and supportive counselling relationship at difficult times and was a volunteer counsellor and staff member on a project for at risk young people in the UK.  

She is passionate about helping people uncover the potential in themselves and their relationships and using this awareness to engage, connect and move forward successfully. 

Jessica's clinical hours are Monday 1.30pm-9.00pm, Tuesday 12.00pm-4.00pm, Wednesday 9.30am-2.00pm and 6.00pm-9.00pm and Saturday 9.30am-4.00pm, by appointment only. 

Patricia Evans 

Patricia is a qualified Counsellor and Leadership Coach who is committed to helping individuals and couples become the best that they can be, fuelled by their own strengths and experience.

Patricia is originally from the northeast of England and has lived and worked in Singapore for 26 years. As a consequence she has a good understanding of the challenges that face both the local and expat communities.

Prior to completing her Masters in Counselling, Patricia developed her knowledge and understanding serving the community in various roles, gaining valuable experience working with young people, with women’s issues and in hospice care. She has worked in both Singapore and the UK.

 Relationships have always been her passion. Patricia is a committed Couples Therapist who believes we are all are hard wired for connection and so our relationships make an invaluable contribution to our happiness. Her work draws from the Gottman model where she has completed training Levels 1 & 2. This is strongly supported by her training as an Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist where she is about to start training Level 3.

She was awarded BA Honours in Social Sciences from the University of York and then went on to obtain Post Graduate qualifications in Education from the University of Leeds, then later a Post Graduate diploma in Leadership and Management Coaching from the University of Northumbria’s Business School. Her Masters in Counselling is from Monash University in Australia. 

Patricia's clinical hours are Tuesday 9.00am-9.00pm, Thursday 9.00am-9.00pm and Saturday 9.00am-4.00pm, by appointment only.

Swanie Khoo

Swanie Khoo is a qualified Marriage and Family Counsellor, trained Trauma Therapist and Family Life Educator. She has journeyed with many whose lives are broken by tragedy and trauma; worked with individuals, couples and families to rebuild their lives and relationships.

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Also an experienced Coach, she has helped individuals grow through transitions and career change; consulted leaders of organizations toward change and greater emotional connection and transformation. She believes in harnessing every individual’s potential toward growth, healing, mental wellness and wholeness.

Swanie holds a Masters of Arts (Counseling) and is a trauma therapist with the Singapore Trauma Network for Children (KKH). She is also an accredited facilitator for Prepare/Enrich, and accredited trainer/facilitator for Parenting with Confidence workshops. In addition to the professional work, she volunteers with OvertheRainbow.org and Focus on the Family Singapore, as a workshop trainer/facilitator, promoting mental health wellness for youth and family life.

She has a wide-spectrum of experience working with couples, children and their families, and individuals across a range of mental health, interpersonal and behavioral issues. Her experience is culminated through years of counseling practice - working with couples,  and volunteering at the Girls’ Home (Andrew and Grace Home, and St Georges Residency), where she works with adolescents/teenagers, and youths-at-risk, victims of abuse, neglect and abandonment. Her work mainly draws from scientifically grounded psychodynamic approaches, Gottman‘s Method for couples’ work (trained in Level 1 & 2)  and emotion-focused interventions (EFCT). As for child and family therapy, she integrates therapeutic approaches from play therapy, Theraplay, and trauma-focused CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) to help families, enhance parent and child attachment, build self-esteem, and emotional connection.

Swanie is a Malaysian based in Singapore for more than 18 years. She is happily married to a Singaporean and they have four children aged between 4 and 12 years old. Prior to making a career change to counselling and psychotherapy, she was in human resources management for over 10 years within the banking and public accounting industry. She’s passionate about helping individuals and families, and her mission is to bring hope and healing to those who are hurting in their relationships, and empowering them toward a purpose, finding meaning, and wholeness.

Swanie’s clinical hours are Tuesday 2.30pm-9.00pm and Friday 10.00 am - 5pm, by appointment only.